Inspiration In Front of Adversity

Kristian AndersonRecently I ran across a YouTube video that had a young man, Kristian Anderson, doing a video for his wife’s surprise birthday party.  It was an emotional video by itself.  Mention the fact that Kristian had terminal cancer when he filmed it and it takes on a whole new level.

After the video I picked up a copy of his book (see the review here) about his journey.  His willingness to share about the condition and what he was going through was inspirational and can give hope to many others in similar situations.

In the book Kristian talks about going to the pharmacy and standing in line where a woman recognized him because he was on “Oprah” some time before.  Let me put in his own words:

“I arrived at the pharmacy and as I am standing in line a young woman approached me and, with an accent, proceeded to very timidly ask if I was “from Oprah”. I told her that I was and she smiled an enormous smile. She told me she had multiple sclerosis and that for a long time she had been battling serious depression. She told me that after seeing our story on the Oprah show she was so deeply moved and encouraged… and her depression left her. She then thanked me for my courage and for helping her… told me that without me she would still be suffering depression.” (link)

Kristian was battling cancer which is a horrid disease yet there was some light that he was able to shed for other people.  If we can spread inspiration in front of adversity then why can’t we do it when times are good?

Some time in the next seven days find a way to spread some light into someone’s life who is having a rough time.  Take them dinner, talk to them, or give them an inspiring book – just do something to shed some light.

Book Review: Days Like These by Kristian and Rachel Anderson

Days Like These book cover“Days Like These: Even in the Darkest Moments, Light Can Shine Through” is a book of collected blog postings by Kristian Anderson and includes insights and information from his wife Rachel.

The book chronicles the journey of a young husband and father who goes to the hospital only to discover that he has liver cancer.  Kristian tells us what he is going through, good and bad, and his struggles with the fact that he could leave his family.

It is a very quick and easy read.  Kristian’s writing makes you feel like he is telling you the story (essentially he is).  If you have had cancer or been side by side with someone who has fought the fight you will see a lot of similarities in this book; things I am sure that you saw or fought with.  It is a first hand account and he doesn’t seem to hold anything back.  I find his truthfulness refreshing as he us up front about various aspects of his life.

My only criticism with the book is that the dates are missing in most of the text.  Since this was a printed version of his blog I would like to have followed everything by date to give me a better sense of where I was in the journey.  While it is possible to do so it is left up to the reader to figure it out with a sprinkling of dates throughout the text.

I enjoyed the book and I think it should be read by anyone who is starting their battle with cancer to see that there can be some positivity in a horrible situation.  Those who need some inspiration can certainly get it from Kristian Anderson.

If you would like to get other peoples point of view or purchase the book you can do so on Amazon.

*Note: I received a copy of this book at no charge in exchange for my honest review.*