Credit: A Celebration of Women
So many people seem to think that their past defines everything about their future. This is simply a myth. While I will say that your past has helped shape you it should never define you.
Have you noticed when you see one person who says that their life sucks they do things that cause this (they spend money they can’t afford, complain about everything, drive people away, etc)? And then you have the other person who says that life is great and they seem to have everything in order (good relationships, savings, friends, etc)?
The human brain is a remarkable thing. It provides you with the answers and reasoning you are searching for whether right or wrong. Your life might be great when other people look at it but when you continue to tell yourself you have the worst luck and a bad life then your brain starts to provide you with how you have the worst luck and what you are doing wrong in your life.
If you want to change you can. Will you?
