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Are You Getting the Role You Want?

Auditions

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A few weeks ago I wrote about casting your own life and auditioning people for it.  After I published it I received a message from my magician friend Basil.  He mentioned that we are always trying to be cast ourselves in our dream role and that we never know which small part we are given by someone else might take us to our next level.

I loved his thinking here.  Not only are we auditioning other people they are auditioning us.  We want to play a role in their life because we want them to play one in ours.

Next time you run into a stranger treat them with dignity and respect.  Whether it is a customer in your business or someone you are running into randomly during the day, you never know what that person may hold for you or how much power and help you can give to them.

Several years ago I was selling a camera to a gentleman.  I took time with him and answered his questions.  I made sure he had all the information he needed to make a good decision.  Immediately after finishing the man hands me his business card and tells me if I was ever looking for a job to give him a call.  While I never took him up on that offer what if that card would have opened to doors to one of my dreams?

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Cast Your Life

Clapper Board and Reel

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Think about your life as a television show for a moment. Season after season (year after year) you are the director, producer, editor, and caterer. You are the star and you get to control just about every aspect of what goes on. But would you like to know what your most powerful job is? You get to work in casting and decide who gets a spot in your show!

You get to choose the people who play a lead roll and those that are the extras in the background. Each role is your decision. You are the boss when it comes to casting and this task should never be given to anyone else. While characters will be introduced by other people you have full authority whether to give them a spot.

Choose carefully who you add into your life show. Audition those that you are considering for your cast and think about the role they will play carefully. Be gentle with those that you won’t be allowing to return next season and always keep open the possibility of a return spot if circumstances change.

And remember, give an award winning performance that you are proud of!  Your life show is your legacy for other generations!

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Negative People In Your Positive World

“The attitudes of your friends are like the buttons on an elevator. They’ll either take you up or they’ll take you down.” Alexander Lockhart

RolodexWhy associate yourself with negative people?   It is a very simple question with a huge impact.

Have you ever been so extremely happy one minute and then your friend comes by and you can feel your mood drop?  This may not happen right away but I am sure you have noticed someone around you that causes this to happen.  What do you do about it?  Most people stay around and never say anything about it and let it happen time and time again.

Don’t get me wrong.  We all have our bad days where we bring other people to the bottom of the barrel with us and that is one reason we have close relationships – so we have someone who will take that ride with us when needed.  But those around you who are doing it day after day are impacting your life in ways you may not even think about until you sit back and look.

So, take a moment and open your contact list on your phone or in your e-mail.  Who all are constantly negative?  Think about this hard.  Who always drags you down, dampens your attitude for the remainder of the day (or sometimes days), and then effects everyone around you as you are taking their negativity around?  It may be time to delete them.

“We all need a daily check up from the neck up to avoid stinkin’ thinkin’ which ultimately leads to hardening of the attitudes. ”  Zig Ziglar

 

Side note:  Want to learn how to deal better with a negative co-worker?  Check out Dealing With Toxic People on the A Daring Adventure blog.