It is time for everyone to start their resolutions but I urge you: DON’T! Why? Well, how many times have you or a family member made a New Year’s Resolution and come February (or a week later) you have already forgotten about it or dropped it? Exactly. That is why I urge you to make New Year’s Goals instead.
The difference between the two is simple. A resolution is when you say you are going to do something to change your life and that is about as far as it goes. A goal is something you write down along with the steps it will take to accomplish the goal and with a time frame on finishing it. The process of goal setting allows you to make small steps over a period of time rather than looking at the big thing you want and thinking it is to big to even mess with (it is the whole ‘How do you eat an elephant?’ thing).
Want to lose weight? Get out of debt? Spend more time with family? Simply set up your goals the SMART way (first published by Paul J. Meyer):
- Specific – Instead of “I want to lose weight” change it to “I want to lose 20 pounds.”
- Measurable – You have to be able to measure the goal (it is three weeks in, how much weight have you lost).
- Attainable – Your goal must be something that is reasonable. Something within your life that can be reached.
- Relevant – Your goal needs to be something that matters even if only to yourself. If you don’t care if you stop eating junk then your goal is not relevant.
- Time Bound – You have to have a time frame around it. Maybe it is a six month time and maybe it is five years but you must have a time set.
Let us all go out and make 2013 the best we can!
Sources:
- TIME’s Top 10 Commonly Broken New Year’s Resolutions (online link no longer valid 7/31/14)
- SMART Criteria
- Money Saving Mom’s 2012 Goals

So yesterday marked the end of my blog series about DDPYoga and I wanted to write one more recap about the journey. What a better day to write about a wrestler than WrestleMania Sunday, huh?
It is often said it takes 21 says to form or break a habit. I am not sure how true this is but that is about right for me. If I keep doing something each day somewhere between 21-30 days it starts being routine. Many people want to start or stop habits but think it will be hard or take a lot of time. It may very well be hard if you are curbing an addiction or
You need persistence in life. It is a fact to winning in just about everything you do. If you don’t keep moving forward and moving obstacles you will fail before you get to the finish line.
It is almost that time of year again! What? It isn’t? Oh, it is just time to start saving for that time of year. That is what I wanted to discuss.
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Have you set your goals for this year yet?
Is it really that time again?
Do you have a task in your life that you feel that is to big to tackle? Feeling overwhelmed or like to much is being put on you? Well, there is an easy way to fix this. Now, the way is easy – that does not mean your path to the end of the obstacle will be but it helps you get to the end.
If you are like many people I know you never have enough time to do everything you need to do. I see it all the time on social media that there just isn’t enough time to do _____________. Why is it so many people feel this way? It is because not enough people plan their time.