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The Past Can Hurt and Heal

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Photo Courtesy of Antony Mayfield.

It is true.  The past can hurt quite a bit.  The one thing to realize, and it may take some searching, is the hurt served you in some way.  Maybe it got you out of a bad relationship, an addiction, or caused you to start the career path that you are on.

If you find out how your past served you it can also help you heal the emotional pain.

If you did something to harm another reach out to them to to try and attempt to make it better.  Even if the person doesn’t accept you need to know that you tried.  This can free you in so many ways and help ensure that you don’t make the same mistakes again.

Learn from your past but look forward to your future.  Living in the past serves no productive purpose.  Using it to learn from can be your greatest gift.

“The past can hurt, but you can either run from it or learn from it.”  Rafiki – The Lion King

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A Different Valentine

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Photo Courtesy of Matt Harris.

Valentine’s Day is Friday in the US. Instead of the candy or flowers why not do something extraordinary?

I’m not going to give you any hints but think about what you can do for your significant other. What can you do that is out of the box? What can you do that will make that day then one your talking about when you are a 110? “Remember that one Valentine’s Day” your other half will turn to you and say.

Go out on a limb this week and be memorable.